In December 2020, Philipp Stehler made his love for Vanessa Ciomber public. Since then, the ex-"Bachelorette" participant has repeatedly posted photos with his girlfriend on Instagram. Now the 33-year-old has uploaded a very special picture. For the first time, Philipp clearly shows that his sweetheart is taller than him and honestly admits that his self-confidence used to suffer because of it. He wants to encourage his followers with the honest post.
Philip had problems with his self-confidence for a long time
In the photo, Philipp and Vanessa are posing back to back and it is clear that the blonde is about half a head taller than her 1.76 meter tall boyfriend. Philipp Stehler knows exactly what the common opinion about such a size difference is: “A man has to be taller than a woman, after all he is the stronger sex. It's quite normal, you can see it in our society." For a long time he was guided by it and even chose his partners accordingly.
He is "not tiny" with his size, but "nevertheless it was a present topic for me": "All of this had an impact on my behavior and my self-confidence from my youth to adulthood.". But that's over for him now, as Philipp explains: "I'm lucky to say today that the topic has become so irrelevant to me. But I've noticed myself that it's only since I started thinking like this that I've become even more self-confident and probably have a completely different charisma."
So don't do your thing on any empty phrases
He is now satisfied and happy and would like to motivate his followers to believe in themselves: "Because each of us is unique and that's what makes it exciting, isn't it!? How boring would it be if we all looked the same or lived according to a certain pattern? We shine through our inner values, that makes us all unique. So don't do your thing on any phrases! Sooner or later everyone realizes how valuable it is to be yourself Everything else is positively influenced by it, really EVERYTHING, your entire environment!“
Philipps followers are enthusiastic about his courageous statement and write: "Great text. Far too much attention is paid to such trivialities. The only thing that really counts is the person who is in this shell" or "And you are such a beautiful couple!! No matter if big, small, fat or thin. The main thing is to be happy!” We can only agree with that.